Alternative Information brought to you by discount drugs    

Using Pain To Institute Change In Your Life!


Why do you do something that harms you? Why do you do something that has an overall negative effect in your life? Why do you do something that will make you unhappy later?

The answers to those questions are not easy. When you are overeating, or eating unhealthy foods you are happy and content during the time that you are eating them. You know that you shouldn't have them, but eat them anyway. The reason for this is the positive effect eating gives you at that very moment, is far less painful then the cruel realization that you will have to deal with in the future.

Now what exactly do I mean by that? You know that to stop eating fatty, delicious foods and start exercising will be harder in the long run than you are ready to commit yourself to fixing. Why is that?

In my personal experience, when something seems so difficult, you need adequate motivation to make such a drastic change of your life. There are many schools of thought on how this can be done. However it is my opinion based on my life that the best way to force yourself to change is to create a huge list of reasons why if you wait any longer to change what will happen to you!

I think people in general like to think that positive goals are far easier used to inspire ones self to do things. However, I believe the opposite may be true. I think that create a list of pain and bad things associated with a problem is far more beneficial! Indulge my idea for a moment please. Think of times in your past where fear of mental pain or reprimand has inspired you to do something. If you can't think of anything, let me help you with one possible situation. You have a large assignment due in school the next day, you've had a week to do it, but kept putting it off. The night before it's due you work your tail off to finish your project. WHY? Because you fear the result if you DON'T! The idea of finishing a good project over long period of time was not sufficient positive influence in your life to make you want to do it, but the thought of getting in trouble, or failing because of NOT doing it is a far more inspiring method!

Now that I've started off on this tangent you may be asking yourself, well that seems like a reasonable idea, but what does that have to do with me, and my current problem? Well let me tell you, you can use this method to inspire you towards a positive area of your life, by instilling a fear of failing in you!

One way, which has been beneficial to me personally, is the following. Get a piece of paper and write your problem at the top. Let's say "Overeating and being unhappy with my weight". Now what I want you to do is write up a list of statements that are reasons why you *MUST* change your way of life RIGHT NOW. For instance, here are a few ideas that may be in that list:

I will not be happy looking at myself in the mirror. My spouse does not find me as attractive. I might not live as long as I could because of my weight.

Use as many examples and ideas as you can come up with, and be graphic worse case scenario to help you. "My spouse doesn't find me as attractive" well that could lead to possible divorce. That could lead to your children being sad and without a good influence in their life. I want you to use as many graphic ideas as you can to make it seem like you MUST change RIGHT NOW!

Now I want you to make a second list, this list is ALL the positive aspects that will happen because of this change. Here are a few ideas for you:

I will look better in my clothing I will be more sexy I will have lots of energy! I will have a stronger relationship I will love longer and healthier! I won't get sick as often!

Those are just a few of the benefits to losing weight for some people! Wouldn't you like to have those results and many more? I really want you to look at these lists, and make sure that you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you must change, and these will be the results. Then do everything you can to make these positive changes in your life! Remember what could happen if you don't! Start small, take the stairs, walk to the corner store, so pushups, do sit-ups, eat healthier foods, reduce or stop the bad food intake!

Use these two lists to INSPIRE you to make a positive change in your life!!

I know that if you implement these lists, look at them daily, you will make it to your goals, you just have to believe that you MUST!

Ken Dennis http://KenDennis-RSS.homeip.net/


MORE RESOURCES:

'Alternative' Medicine Is Mainstream
Wall Street Journal - 10 hours ago
This is a watershed in the evolution of integrative medicine, a holistic approach to health care that uses the best of conventional and alternative ...
Integrative Medicine Hawaii Health Guide
all 3 news articles


stv.tv

Exxon CEO doubts Obama's alternative energy goal
Reuters India, India - 20 hours ago
In a speech at George Mason University in Fairfax, Virginia, Obama said he wanted the United States to double its output of alternative energy sources ...
Obama Team, Exxon Mobil Chief Trade Jabs on Energy Wall Street Journal
Exxon favors carbon tax over cap and trade for CO2 curbs MarketWatch
Exxon Mobil CEO prefers carbon tax Bizjournals.com
Forbes - WELT ONLINE
all 55 news articles


BBC News

Obama vows to double US output of alternative energy
AFP - 16 hours ago
FAIRFAX, Virginia (AFP) — President-elect Barack Obama pledged Thursday to double US production of alternative energy in three years, as part of a raft of ...
Video: Obama tax cuts gets cool reception ReutersVideo
Obama plans alternative energy boost Energy Risk (subscription)
Obama's green energy plans build hopes, skepticism Reuters
New Republic - Petroleumworld.com
all 2,905 news articles


Photo Release -- U-Haul Launches U Car Share -- the Alternative to ...
MSNBC - 5 hours ago
8, 2009 (GLOBE NEWSWIRE) -- U Car Share is expanding its growth as it partners with the city of Portland by launching the alternative to vehicle ownership. ...


Fannie Mae Tests 'Short Sales' as Alternative to Foreclosures
Wall Street Journal - 10 hours ago
In the nation's hardest-hit housing markets, where many borrowers owe more than their homes are worth, short sales are often the only alternative to sales ...


Washington Post

‘There Is No Alternative’ Is No Answer
Forward, NY - 16 hours ago
But the idea of ein breira — there is no alternative — is easily transformed into a refuge for the intellectually lazy, a bankrupt alibi for all manner of ...
Video: UN supports Gaza ceasefire plan RussiaToday
For Israel, 2006 Lessons but Old Pitfalls New York Times
Bomb a Ghetto, Raise a Cheer The Nation.
Aljazeera.net - Post Chronicle
all 13,140 news articles


The best alternative medicine for children
CNN - 23 hours ago
Several alternative treatments have been shown to be safe and effective for kids, experts say. "We would both end up miserable," says Kruse-Field. ...


PhillyDeals: PhillyDeals: Finding alternatives in slowing market
Philadelphia Inquirer, PA - 6 hours ago
Now he's looking for alternative ways to make money from real estate as the market slows. Harden dropped out of Temple University in 1991 to fight at Don ...


WELT ONLINE

Europe Looks to Alternative Sources for Energy
Wall Street Journal - Jan 7, 2009
By GUY CHAZAN As Europe counts the cost of Russia's latest gas shut-off, there are signs it could give a boost to alternative sources of gas that currently ...
Video: Ukraine is blackmailing us Putin RussiaToday
Delo Urging Europe to Look for Alternative to Russian Gas STA - Slovenska Tiskovna Agencija
A Gas Crisis in Europe Prompts Talk of Alternatives New York Times
TREND Information - guardian.co.uk
all 7,996 news articles


Entropic Communications and Actiontec Debut Wired Home Networking ...
MSNBC - 9 hours ago
LAS VEGAS, Jan. 8, 2009 (GLOBE NEWSWIRE) -- International CES Booth 25829 -- Entropic Communications, Inc. (Nasdaq:ENTR), a leading provider of silicon ...

Alternative - Google News

home | site map
© 2006